7–8 · Struggling badly
CALM helpline
The Campaign Against Living Miserably runs a free, anonymous helpline and webchat aimed squarely at men, staffed by trained people through the evening and night.
- Who it's for
- Anyone, but built around how men talk.
- Cost
- Free, and it doesn't show on your phone bill.
- Hours
- 5pm to midnight, 365 days a year.
What actually happens
- You call or start a webchat — no referral, no name needed.
- You talk about whatever it is, however it comes out. It does not have to be about suicide.
- They'll help you work out a next step, but nobody makes you do anything.
- They only break confidentiality if there is an immediate risk to life.
Last checked: September 2026. Shaun's Button is not affiliated with CALM helpline — we list them because they help.