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CALM helpline

The Campaign Against Living Miserably runs a free, anonymous helpline and webchat aimed squarely at men, staffed by trained people through the evening and night.

Who it's for
Anyone, but built around how men talk.
Cost
Free, and it doesn't show on your phone bill.
Hours
5pm to midnight, 365 days a year.

What actually happens

  • You call or start a webchat — no referral, no name needed.
  • You talk about whatever it is, however it comes out. It does not have to be about suicide.
  • They'll help you work out a next step, but nobody makes you do anything.
  • They only break confidentiality if there is an immediate risk to life.

Last checked: September 2026. Shaun's Button is not affiliated with CALM helpline — we list them because they help.

Shaun's Button is a signpost, not a crisis service. If life is in danger, call 999. Samaritans: 116 123, free, 24/7. CALM: 0800 58 58 58. SHOUT: text 85258.

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